Chapter 7 – The American Mindset – The American Dream

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The American Mindset

The American Dream is not merely a set of opportunities. It is also a way of thinking.

As we have discussed earlier, throughout most of human history, societies were organized around the assumption that power belonged to a select few. Rulers made decisions while ordinary people adapted to circumstances largely beyond their control.

The American experiment challenged that view. It rested upon the idea that ordinary individuals were capable of governing themselves and directing the course of their own lives. America was founded on a remarkable belief about ordinary people.

This belief shaped not just America’s political institutions but also the national character.

Take baseball as a representative example. In every local community in every small town across America, you will find a passion for little league baseball. It’s one of the many ways people engage and thrive in their communities. With a dozen or more teams, you have coaches, assistant coaches, and parents volunteering with their minivans to bring supplies and raise money. There are small businesses – plumbers, accountants, electricians, store owners – sponsoring games with posters and banners and prizes to give away. There are home games and away games where children travel across towns to play and compete.

If you have ever stopped at a lemonade stand, or bought cookies in front of a supermarket, you see how children of all ages participate in organizing and raising money for their many causes, and developing their uniquely American mindset.

None of these are organized by paid employees. These are grassroots community efforts to belong and contribute towards creating a better life and a thriving community. This ecosystem works in thousands of small towns without any external hand guiding it.

As an active volunteer in my community, I noticed how my son benefitted from having not just one, but many father figures. With every “Yes sir,” he learned respect and how to carry himself with dignity.

Three core traits have shaped America’s psychology: optimism, rugged individualism, and agency.

Optimism

For decades, surveys have consistently shown that Americans tend to be more optimistic about their future.

A global Pew survey found that Americans were likely to report feeling positive about their day-to-day lives and future prospects at almost twice the rate of their counterparts abroad.

We tend to believe that tomorrow can be better than today and that individuals possess the ability to improve their circumstances. This optimism is not naïve. We understand that luck, timing, family circumstances, connections, health, and countless other factors influence success. Life is rarely a simple equation in which effort alone determines outcomes.

Yet we have traditionally believed that hard work remains one of the most important ingredients of success.

This belief is central to the American Dream.

The dream does not promise that hard work will always be rewarded because reality is more complicated than that. What the dream promises is that individuals possess agency over their lives.

This belief encourages us to take risks, start businesses, change careers, pursue education, and recover from failure. It creates a culture that values initiative and rewards those willing to try. It’s the opposite of believing that our destiny is controlled by things that we can’t control.

Rugged Individualism

People who are unfamiliar with American culture often describe America as individualistic. They are correct.

What is frequently misunderstood is the nature of that individualism.

Outsiders interpret American individualism as selfishness. Nothing could be further from the truth. American individualism has traditionally been paired with a strong culture of voluntary community involvement.

The American tradition emphasizes personal responsibility, self-reliance, and initiative. We are expected to care for ourselves, support our families, and contribute to our communities at the same time.

According to the Philanthropy Roundtable, most of the charitable giving in America comes from ordinary individuals. We voluntarily donate about seven times as much per person than other countries, and almost twice at the level of individual households.

This extraordinary tradition of voluntary giving reflects a distinctive feature of American society: a belief that communities are strengthened not by government institutions, but by citizens who freely choose to support one another.

At every school board or township meeting, you can see in action the long tradition of voluntary association. Churches, charities, neighborhood groups, youth sports leagues, and countless other institutions thrive because people choose to engage in them.

The impulse is not contradictory. It flows from the same philosophy, and it is increasingly inspiring community leaders in other countries to do the same.

People who value freedom often prefer communities built through voluntary cooperation rather than obligation. They want the freedom to choose the causes they support, the organizations they join, and the ways they contribute.

This helps explain why generosity and individualism coexist. We may resist being told how to help, but we are remarkably willing to help and fight for the freedom to choose. We do not view ourselves as passive recipients of decisions. We expect to make choices, accept the consequences, solve problems, and improve our circumstances whenever possible.

Even when life proves difficult, there remains a deeply rooted belief that personal responsibility matters if you are capable of it.

This mindset helps explain why we often appear to champion being individualistic and charitable at the same time.

Unfamiliar with this dynamic, observers from outside mistake American individualism for selfishness. The reality is very different. While we are often skeptical of centralized institutions, we have built one of the world’s strongest traditions of voluntary association.

Agency

Underlying all of this is a belief in agency.

A 2014 survey by the Pew Research Center found that Americans were significantly more likely than people in many other advanced nations to believe that hard work is very important for getting ahead in life. At the same time, most Americans acknowledged that factors such as education, family background, and opportunity also play a role. The belief was not that effort is the only ingredient of success, but that effort still matters.

That distinction is important.

A small business owner I met in Texas had just started her own beautician business after coming out of a painful break up with a franchise. She had decided to channel her professional talents into a business and licensed a location from a national franchise. But due to various factors – location, overhead, etc. – her business could not take off. Rather than give up and go back to her safe career, she got out of the contract and started her own independent business.

That path is not for everyone, but it’s an example of how agency, rather than circumstances, can shape our future direction.

A society that believes that outcomes are determined by forces beyond individual control eventually loses its willingness to take risks and loses its agency. People become hesitant to start businesses, pursue difficult goals, recover from failure, or invest in uncertain opportunities.

On the other hand, a society that believes that effort matters, even imperfectly, encourages action. This belief has long fueled American entrepreneurship, innovation, and mobility.  Individuals launch businesses because they believe their actions can influence their future.

This is why the American mindset serves as a bridge between the foundations and the pillars of the Dream.

The American Dream is therefore also a culture of possibility. That culture has never guaranteed success, nor has it eliminated hardship. What it has done is encourage generations of Americans to believe that tomorrow can be better than today and that they possess some ability to help make it so.

That belief remains one of America’s greatest strengths.


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